Have you ever thought of trying bondage in the bedroom?
Naked Curve is here to tell you that you're not the only one thinking this. If the thought of spicing up your sex life has crossed your mind, do it with bondage. Use of bondage equipment is continuously used and referenced in erotica novels and considered a sex art form used for centuries.
If practised safely, you and your partner will be climaxing to the moon. Bondage had become a mainstream sexual play since 2011 when the famous novel turned to film in 2015 '50 Shades of Grey' was released.
First things first. What is bondage?
BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, and submission) is a sexual play method where your partner restrains you for erotic stimulation.
Indulge your sexual fantasies
Bondage is such a seductive sexual fantasy because of the adrenaline and endorphins released when restrained with bondage equipment.
Bondage for beginners
Don't try this with strangers!
It is best to try this form of play with your partner or someone you know well if you're a beginner. For example, it is not recommended to experience your first time in bondage with your brand-new Tinder date.
Be smart.
Hint it to your partner that you want to try it!
Many struggle to admit their sexual fantasies as there is a concern of judgement. You never know, they might be into it! Hint to your partner that you want to explore your sexual fantasies as this opens the conversation that isn't as intimidating as you may seem.
Disregard misconceptions
Keep clear of misconceptions, as bondage can also be considered one of the most romantic and sensual forms of play with your partner. If you hear the word bondage, don't instantly think of chains and whips, it's not that scary.
Don't be scared of having a safe word
Communication through bondage-play is imminent. Start slow and have a safe word to minimise your panic or pain. Once you relax, bondage can be one of the most pleasurable sexual experiences you've ever had if you just be open and stay calm.
Take it slow and keep it simple
When experimenting with bondage, work out between your partner, who will be restraining and restrained. We recommend you and your partner try both roles as the dominant and submissive as both can love BDSM and bondage in a partnership.
In one instance, you may be in a more dominating mood, and in another, you may have the urge to feel more submissive.
What to buy to get you started
Buying bondage toys and sex toys online with Naked Curve means you can discreetly fulfil your sexual fantasies without the delivery man thinking you have a sex dungeon in your house. Our beautiful and discreet packaging means your sexual desires are kept secret.
Naked Curve's Beginners Mixed Bondage Box
Try our bondage box that includes the essentials you need to get you started for beginners in bondage.
The box includes:
- A little something for the face
- Something to tickle
- A variety of restraints
- Toys that give a slight sting
- Surprise gifts
So, our fellow Naked Curve article readers, what are you waiting for?
Explore your sexual fantasies and get into character with our sex toys and plus size lingerie range.
Remember: It's only courtesy if you both get to orgasm during playtime in the bedroom.
Written by Ivana Zoric